Happy Halloween

I recently saw a news story saying that Halloween is the second largest holiday in terms of money spent, about six billion dollars annually.  It is right after Christmas in terms of dollar volumes.  Now I find that to be quite interesting!  October 31 has certainly morphed from just a little kid’s holiday into an adult holiday.  It does make you wonder why so many adults go all out for Halloween with decorations, elaborate costumes, parties, and bar crawls.  Of course, there is the old idea of any excuse for a party!  I suspect that much of the attraction of putting on a costume for Halloween may be due to the desire to slip into some sort of alter ego, at least for a period of time.  Why else would seemingly sane adults suddenly become the naughty upstairs maid, Darth Vader, a super hero, or even a presidential candidate for an evening?  It is reminiscent of the masked balls of past centuries at the English and French courts.  If no one knows who you are, perhaps you can get by with acting in ways you normally would not do.

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Historically, Halloween was the night before All Saints Day, the night when ghouls, goblins, and the spirits of the dead were thought to roam the earth. Over time All Hallows Eve evolved into the holiday we know today replete with lots of tricks or treats.  I think I was fortunate to have experienced Halloween as a little kid before the evening got hijacked by the adults.

In my childhood we didn’t have the plethora of ready-made costumes to choose from like you see today.  We actually had to make our own.  These could be fairly simple or elaborate, depending upon your creativity and your Mom’s sewing skills.  An old sheet could quickly become a ghost.  Highly popular among the little boys were hobos and scarecrows.  An old worn out jacket of your Dad’s and some black smudges on your face, and you were all set.  For girls it was usually the princess or the gypsy queen.  As for me, I was always the gypsy.  A long flowing skirt and a white ruffled blouse with elastic sleeves that you could pull down off your shoulders constituted the basic costume.  Add some of your Mom’s make-up and lots of dangly jewelry, and you were all set.  Oh, I was so glamorous and sexy!

When my boys were little, I tried a couple of times to make their costumes.  One year they went as ghosts with giant jack o’ lantern heads out of felt.  I thought they were quite adorable.  Unfortunately a few of my neighbors wanted to know why my kids were dressed as tomatoes!   I guess my felt wasn’t quite orange enough.  Another year we had great success with the head on the plate.   We covered a large box with a small tablecloth and cut a hole for the kid’s head to stick out.  Then we cut a large paper plate to go around the his neck.  Next we glued on some silverware, salt and pepper shakers, and a nice parsley garnish.  Finish with some ghastly facial make up complete with blood trickling out of the corners of the mouth, and you’ve got it!

In the days when I was a child, people actually felt free to hand out homemade goodies—popcorn balls, cookies, or caramel apples.  Today, any cautious parent quickly disposes of any treat not commercially packaged and intact, and many hospitals offer free x-rays of the little ones’ candy to ensure that it is free of needles or razor blades.  What a sad commentary on today’s society.  I don’t recall any sort of serious vandalism when I was little.  A trick might be turning over a garbage can or leaving a burning paper bag full of dog poop on someone’s porch, not wreaking havoc in the computer lab in the local elementary school.

So whatever your plans for Halloween, enjoy the evening and watch out for those evil spirits.  I have to run now and go plan my gypsy costume!

©The Eclectic Grandma, 2016

 

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Dateline:  August 12, 2016

Last Saturday marked two years since my Mom died.  If she were still alive, she would now be 93.  After her death, my sister and I decided that we would tilt a glass or two of wine on her birthday rather than on her death day in remembrance.  Nonetheless, it is hard not to recall that date when she left us for good.  One of the loneliest feelings is when you suddenly realize that you are now an adult orphan with no living parents.  You are now the older generation as the endless cycles of life continue to roll forward.

How often do you miss calling her to tell her the little news of the day?  The Rufus hummingbirds arrived today.  There was snow on the Indian Peaks this morning and on and on.  She was ready to go, frail and in pain, but we weren’t necessarily ready for her to leave.  One of the last things holding her back from that big crossing over was her worry about her two beloved cats, Scooter and Smokey.  Once she knew that they were both well placed, she felt free to leave.

Scooter went to live with a friend of my sister.  He is in a bustling household with two other kitty playmates and three young children.  Always more playful and active than Smokey, he seems to be quite happy in his new domicile.  He loves the kids, and they love him back, and he thoroughly enjoys having two other furry friends to play with!

Finding a new home for Smokey proved to be a bit more challengingSmokeyg.  You may be asking why we didn’t just take her.  With two 100 pound Irish Setters, a large coyote population, an occasional mountain lion, and even a couple of beautiful lynx, our household was simply not an option for an elderly arthritic kitty.  Our doors stand open almost year round with the walk-through type of hanging screens.  We finally just gave up on traditional screen doors as the dogs viewed all screens as walk-throughs anyway!

So Smokey went to live with the wonderful people at the Evergreen Cat Lodge.  This lodge just for kitties does boarding for private guests as well as housing any number of potential adoptees and special needs cats.  Now I am not a cat, but if I were, this is definitely where I would want to go for my vacation!  This place is the Waldorf Astoria of cat boarding.  Every guest has his or her own little room with large glass windows and doors, complete with snuggly chairs, perches, and a private covered litter box—a little touch of feline privacy!   About 40 sq. feet per cat, I would guess.

As a more permanent resident, Smokey had the run of the place.  She found a couple of favorite chairs and hiding places and soon let the other cats know if they dared to get in her spot!  As her arthritis got worse and her kidneys started acting up, she was moved to a more privileged spot in the owner’s private den area where her food, water, bed, and litter box were all within easy reach.  I have to admit I didn’t stop by very often after the first couple of months to visit.  I wasn’t sure how well she even remembered me, and seeing her was a painful reminder of my own loss.

On Friday, August 12th, Susan emailed and called to let me know that Smokey was near death and did we want to have the vet put her down or let her go on her own.  She didn’t think she was in any pain, just slowly shutting down.  After a brief discussion we agreed to let her go on her own terms and not have the vet speed up the dying process.  She always hated riding in the car anyway, and I hated to think of her last moments being filled with an anxiety-provoking car ride.  I told Susan I would stop by on Saturday for a final good-bye visit, but Smokey didn’t wait that long.  Susan called later in the afternoon to tell me she was gone.

We’ll pick up her ashes when they are ready and spread them on the hillside behind the family cabin here in Colorado where we spread our Mom’s ashes two short years ago and our Dad’s oh so long ago, almost thirty-five years now.

Good bye, Smokey!  I hope you are happily purring on your Mama’s lap in a better place.

©The Eclectic Grandma, 2016

 

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